How To Overcome The Dreaded Awkward Silence And Impress The Girl

By J. Ryu


You finally manage to approach a cute girl. Utilizing your awesome communication skills, you strike up a conversation without getting slapped or laughed away. The conversation with this cutie is going great. She's smiling, laughing, clearly becoming more interested and more attracted as you continue.

Then ... you get it: a brain fart, a blank mind, a loss for words. The only thing that matters is, it brings the conversation to a total stop and you can feel her attraction levels for you dropping faster than your ego. She looks at you with expectantly, then with disappointedly, then disinterestedly, then dismissively. Game over.

So what exactly can you do to pull the conversational nose-dive back into the high flying conversation it was? You go into your tool kit. Your interaction skills toolbox. You are about to learn one of the absolute best conversation-saving resource available. This is a guaranteed method to save any conversation with a woman, PLUS it's so perfectly constructed, that it quickly allows sexual innuendo to obtain her mind "in the right place" while still being in the context of pure, non-desperate and fun banter.

It's a little game I like to call "SMK" and it will be your wingman. If you utilize this new wingman of yours, SMK, any interaction about in free fall will instantly be turned around. You will leap past the average dork that approaches her with the usual stupid pickup lines and dull conversations.

When you begin to run out of things to talk about, when her attraction is about to start dipping down ... You turn to her, and you say: "Hey, let's play a game real fast." Her eyes will sparkle with interest. This is definitely a departure from the typical night-time drivel she's used to hearing. She will definitely invite you to proceed.

Continue to the game. Start to glance around the room, assessing the other guys you see and start to point them out one by one, and ask her "ok, so would you sleep with, marry, or kill him?" She'll laugh at first. Then she'll look over at your target and size him up. Choose different types of guys representing the spectrum of personality types and stereotypes. A jock. A gangster. A nerd. A handsome debonair type. A musician. A business guy.

This will do a few things:

1) You will get an insight into just what she values in a man, and how she operates. She will provide really direct hints to how she wishes to be seduced. If she says "sleep with" to the artist, "marry" to the nerdy man, and "kill" to the man in a business suit ... then you can suspect that she's got a wild side, she doesn't like guys with a great deal of structure, and she's a secret nerd. Think about that ... she'll pretty much be giving you a HUGE tip into the best ways to seduce her.

2) You can continue bantering and teasing her. This is so crucial to the first stage of the interaction. Keep conversation light, non-needy (teasing her playfully) and fun! Make fun and silly projections about who you guess she'd fuck, marry and kill. It will be remarkably easy as she's alternating between giggling at her own qwerky tastes, cringing at the dopey guys, and switching to her "ooh la la" voice with the guys that turn her on.

3) And turned on she will be. Bear in mind, she's bringing the idea "who do I want to sleep with?" into her mind, and it was all an experience that was generated by and shared with you ... and just you.

4) Finally ... she will see that you are 100 % confident in your sexuality and your ability to draw in women. You can confidently go over the theoretical idea of her sleeping with various other guys, and that does not threaten you. The majority of guys would be terrified to even suggest that she even look at another guy when he's speaking to her! Your self-confidence here will be extremely hot to women.

After playing this game for even a few minutes, she will be extremely turned on by your creativity, your playfulness, and your confidence... This sets you up PERFECTLY to transition into the next stage of interaction, which builds upon the sexual energy in this game, especially if you've been properly mixing in the right "sexual triggers" that all women have.




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