Orlando Divorce Lawyers Can Ensure That Separations Are Fair To All Parties

By Peter Robinson


Being divorced used to be viewed as shameful, but this has long not been the case any longer. Divorcing has become common place and every year more and more couples separate. However, it does not become easier just because it is more common. Separations are often accompanies by a host of emotions and hurt feelings. At least Orlando divorce lawyers can help couples to separate peacefully and fairly.

There is much more to dissolving a marriage by living apart. Couples need to make numerous important decisions, especially if they have children. Many of these decisions have far reaching consequences and the entire process of dissolving a joint estate can be extremely complex. It becomes even more complicated if the partners do not communicate with each other. All parties, including the children, have some rights that must be respected and protected.

Contested cases, especially, can be nasty, humiliating and very expensive. Each partner will need an attorney to represent them. This can be horribly expensive, especially if the case drags on. Couples also need to remember that contested cases are not private affairs. All the records of the court are in the public domain and available to all and sundry.

There are other factors that can complicate contested cases and escalate the legal cost. The courts often require a report from social services before reaching a decision regarding custodial matters and may even demand a psychological assessment. Testimony may also be given by financial experts, family members and other people that may be involved in the process. In rare cases the court may order some form of counselling before making a ruling.

Uncontested cases are much cheaper because the services of only one attorney will be required. The attorney will guide the couple towards reaching agreement on all the issues and will then draw up a separation agreement. This agreement is routinely made an order of the court. The proceedings are private and confidential and in most cases the parties never even have to appear in the court.

Divorcing couples can save a lot of time and money if they are willing to negotiate in private, initially without involving a third party to manage the process. This can only be done if both partners are willing to communicate and to compromise. Once they have reached a private agreement on all major issues, an attorney is hired to simply draw up the final and formal agreement.

Couples that agree to uncontested separations often save even more money by hiring the services of a registered counsellor rather than an attorney. These specially licensed counsellors are trained to help divorcing couples reach agreement in uncontested cases and they charge significantly less than attorneys. Care should be taken, however, to hire someone that is experienced, unbiased and knowledgeable in all the legal aspects.

Many couples find that they are forced to lower their living standards after divorcing. Social experts and religious leaders often argue that it may be in the best interests of all parties to first try and salvage the marriage. After counselling, many couples realize that the differences between them are not as irreconcilable as they first thought.




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