Benefits In Same Sex Married Life

By Cathy Mercer


There is a slow emergence in gay marriages and a lot of people have become interested in the happenings of a same sex married life. Perhaps all the society knows about is what goes on in heterosexual marriages, so that leave a lot of questioning for gay couples. There are a lot of benefits and pros and cons to having gay marriage, but there may be more pros than cons. It is with pride that a lot of states and countries have become accepting to gay couples in this modern day and age.

There are a lot of pros and cons to gay marriage that a lot of people do not know of. First thing, everyone should be given equal opportunity to love whom they love and be with them should they please. Anyone should be allowed to publicly express and celebrate their commitment to each other, whether be it homosexual commitment or heterosexual commitment. Whatever the society can offer to heterosexual marriages should also be freely offered to homosexual relationships as well.

A lot of benefits can be guaranteed with heterosexual couples, all of these benefits of health care and insurance should also be applied to homosexual couples. With the fact that in some states, homosexual couples can not be married, the state takes from them the right to access these benefits as a couple. Things such as hospital visitation hours and inheritance rights are also not granted to gay couples.

Whatever values you can see in the society today is shaped by the people, and whatever values the society holds important also shape the people too. Institutions like marriage undergo a lot of changes, especially in the modern times where communication is instant, and understanding other cultures have become very important.

If the state denies gay couples to marry, they somewhat put the lesbians and gays in an inferior position than straight couples. This is a kind of discrimination that will hold the gay couples in a minority group. Not being allowed to marry off would somehow mean that they are not entitled to these rights, which makes them inferior.

Adoption is a very noble act that should be encouraged to all couples. However, it is a very difficult process that requires a lot of work and patients. Gay couples, by their very definition, cannot produce their own offspring, so adoption is usually the option for them. Adoption is a harder process for gay couples mainly because some couples are not wed, which makes it a problem for child care services.

In a loving and committed relationship, the couples are less likely to experience depression and social withdrawals. If gay couples are not allowed to be wed, their chances of experiencing social withdrawals and psychological disorders might be higher. People who are in love should be more than allowed to be with that person.

Besides, same sex married life could be very enjoyable for the couple because of the very essence of their relationship. Since they both are in the similar gender, they both know what each other wants. They have an idea of how the other must feel mainly because they have the similar biological sex.




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