Why You Need To Consult A Child Psychologist

By Shirley Phillips


What appears like simple and playful childhood years may end up being the most complicated. The experiences children go through in their formative years affect the adults they become. It is impossible to control all these experiences. However, with the assistance of a child psychologist you can ensure that your kid responds in the appropriate way.

Children tend to bottle emotions whenever they have no opportunity to express them freely. This suppression takes a heavy toll on their confidence to ask for assistance. It gets worse when the victims are unable to socialize or experience difficulties solving problems. Therapy makes it easier to get to the root of the problem and develop a solution. The therapist can decode displacements and redirect the emotions appropriately.

Most children suffer from school related stress. They have to deal with homework or are anxious about tests. They may be facing peer pressure or are being bullied. Some of this anxiety might be manifested in lack of enthusiasm to attend school. In the evening, they might not want to discuss what happened in school. This is one of those moments to engage a professional therapist.

Children are never consulted when major decisions are made in the family. Relocation, separations, divorce, etc leave them severely exposed and vulnerable. Such changes are as serious as an illness visiting your home. Children will require therapy and professional guidance to both understand and cope with the situation. The therapist also assists parents to understand what the child is going through and therefore make it easier for them to cope.

Children also go through experiences that affect their lives directly. An injury, accident or any form of abuse is psychologically traumatizing. The impact such occurrences have on their self esteem is huge. Some of these occurrences change the lives of victims forever. The resultant mental pressure, moods, socialization changes require handling by a therapist.

There are signs that will indicate that your child needs the attention of a therapist. Watch out for lack of appetite, sleeplessness and being moody. Other children exhibit change of behavior which affects their socialization and academic performance. You are also likely to witness withdrawal from others, stress, being sulky and tearful. Sudden bouts of emotions are also clear indications of the need for assistance.

Development psychologists help children with delayed milestones. Some signs of these delays include failure to talk at the right time, walk or train to use the potty. The therapist will eliminate or confirm any doubts about autism or other developmental disorders. This is important in enabling the parent or guardian to take early steps towards correcting the situation.

Children should be taken through individualized counseling. It will take a while before the root of the problem and solution are found considering limited expressiveness in children. Follow-up is therefore important for most children. Group therapy is used in situations where a set of children are struggling with a similar traumatic experience. Personal therapy must also follow to deal with individual responses. With the assistance of a professional, your children will be insulated from the nasty childhood experiences that threaten their normal growth.




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