You find yourself walking down the street with no expectations, when you see your future girlfriend walking along minding her own business. She immediately catches your eye and your heart. You want to meet her, you want to go up to her, stop her and have a deep conversation with her.
But then you start thinking how she would react if a bum like you accosted her in the middle of the day, in the middle of the street. Because if a real bum were to accost YOU in the middle of the street, you'd feel harassed, annoyed, and/or a little bit scared.
Well, attempting to stop a girl in the street is practically like that. Everyone wants to feel active, engaged, and self important so a woman walking busily down the street is in a rush to go somewhere not that awfully important. A stranger stopping her from her objective is akin to a bum stopping you for cash. Because of the goal oriented frame of mind of the girl, the success rate of stopping and favorably engaging a woman is LOW. A girl doesn't wish to be stopped. Even if they're going nowhere, they still think they're going somewhere. The concept of meeting a woman on the street simply doesn't work.
Then what should you do? Should you simply let that cutie walk along and out of your life? No way! There is a way, a much better way then attempting to stop a woman on the road. A way that makes the conditions to approach her a lot more ideal for success.
Basically, do not try to stop a moving target on a mission... follow her. Don't creep up on her, don't rush after her, and definitely don't stalk her! Just do some Mission Impossible recon and follow her. Follow her because people walking on the street are not walking far. If they're walking, they're walking to someplace close, otherwise they'd be driving in their car. So If you see a woman walking down the street, chances are, she is going to some place close.
So be like 007, cool and inconspicuous, and tail her. You can regroup and come up with a game plan as soon as she has actually stopped and you have determined her destination. Depending on the type of spot and atmosphere, you will have to readjust your opening but once she has actually settled at her destination, you can approach her like normal in an environment that is much more favorable to approaching.
A stationary target is much easier to hit then a moving one. So be patient, get in touch with your inner 007, do some mission impossible spy work, and approach her at the right time.
But then you start thinking how she would react if a bum like you accosted her in the middle of the day, in the middle of the street. Because if a real bum were to accost YOU in the middle of the street, you'd feel harassed, annoyed, and/or a little bit scared.
Well, attempting to stop a girl in the street is practically like that. Everyone wants to feel active, engaged, and self important so a woman walking busily down the street is in a rush to go somewhere not that awfully important. A stranger stopping her from her objective is akin to a bum stopping you for cash. Because of the goal oriented frame of mind of the girl, the success rate of stopping and favorably engaging a woman is LOW. A girl doesn't wish to be stopped. Even if they're going nowhere, they still think they're going somewhere. The concept of meeting a woman on the street simply doesn't work.
Then what should you do? Should you simply let that cutie walk along and out of your life? No way! There is a way, a much better way then attempting to stop a woman on the road. A way that makes the conditions to approach her a lot more ideal for success.
Basically, do not try to stop a moving target on a mission... follow her. Don't creep up on her, don't rush after her, and definitely don't stalk her! Just do some Mission Impossible recon and follow her. Follow her because people walking on the street are not walking far. If they're walking, they're walking to someplace close, otherwise they'd be driving in their car. So If you see a woman walking down the street, chances are, she is going to some place close.
So be like 007, cool and inconspicuous, and tail her. You can regroup and come up with a game plan as soon as she has actually stopped and you have determined her destination. Depending on the type of spot and atmosphere, you will have to readjust your opening but once she has actually settled at her destination, you can approach her like normal in an environment that is much more favorable to approaching.
A stationary target is much easier to hit then a moving one. So be patient, get in touch with your inner 007, do some mission impossible spy work, and approach her at the right time.
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