How To Talk To Women: The Myth

By J. Ryu


You're in a bar / nightclub/ book store/ cafe/ knitting class, when you spot a cutie on the other side of the room. You would give anything to be able to go up to her to start a conversation and prove how charming and funny you are. If she glances at you and makes eye contact, you look down, shuffle your feet, the run away to the bathroom.

You go home, alone yet again, and the incident plays out over and over and over again in your dejected brain. All the could haves, would haves, should haves, coupled with what if scenarios blazing through your mind makes you feel dejected, rejected, small, and a big wussie.

Cold approaching and the related approach anxiety is the biggest barrier men have when trying to pick up women. How do you approach women? How do you go up to a woman and start talking to her? How do you stop her on the street? How do get up the courage to go up to a gorgeous woman?

No matter what the pick up artists or relationship gurus imply or lead you to believe, there is no "magic" formula or technique that lets a man go from wussie to superstud by reading a book/ watching a video.

There is no "magic" chemical, there is no super secret subliminal mind control technique, there is no arcane, esoteric Don Juan magic. Anybody who is selling this is full of crap and any man who believes this is beyond hope.

But don't despair, there be hope! Although there is no voodoo magic, there exists systematic techniques that can take you from lonely to getting as many women as you want. But this takes practice, hard work, commitment, and self improvement.

Approaching and picking up a woman is a skill, and like any other skill, it can be learned, practiced, and eventually mastered. Your level of mastery will obviously depend of such factors as natural talent, level of desire, how hard you work, and your level of commitment.

Although there are many different pick up artist systems, relationship gurus, and how-to guides on this subject, there is an underlying structure and concepts that are universal across all systems.

This isn't a big secret or some mystical technique, but a concept that applies not only women but relationships and life in general. These are: confidence, common sense, mindset, self improvement, and body language.

I knew that! Yes, everybody knows it to some degree. However what separates the losers from the badasses is the specific practice and application of this skill set. The badasses actually took the time and effort to learn, practice, and apply this skill while the lonely prefer to wait for some alien to give them a ring with superpowers.

Being a Badass that knows how to talk to women and attracting any woman he desires is a journey of self improvement of body and mind. Like any skill, there are no shortcuts, the journey is rough, but the rewards are sweet.




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