There is one thing that runs through your mind when you have to deal with breaking up with your girlfriend, even if you don't want to admit to it. That thing is, you wonder if you are going to be able to ever find love again. That is a pretty universal fear and it is one that guys just don't talk about with other guys. Yet, if you don't acknowledge that you have that fear, it can severely limit what happens down the road. It can make you jump into a new relationship with the wrong woman a little bit too quickly and it can also make you feel like going back to an old girlfriend, all because you are afraid that you won't be able to find love again.
You can find it again, trust me on that one. I know, it may not seem that way right now, but you will be able to find a woman to love again. What you first have to do is to get over the pain that you are feeling right now over the woman you have lost. You have to remind yourself that all it really means is that you are no longer with someone with whom you can't make a relationship work and if you learn the right attraction skills, you can replace her with someone who is better for you in the long run.
The same goes with negative questions. If you ask yourself questions like "Why can't I find love?" or "Why am I single?" your subconscious mind will again go and find the answers for you. These are not nice answers either! Things such as "You sabotage relationships.", "You're too fat!", "You can't commit." and so on... Your brain MUST come up with an answer for you.Not pleasant but that's how it works. You then keep going through the same patterns time after time, potential relationship after potential relationship.
Do you dismiss men easily or get offended by them at times? If so, maybe you are being to hard on them and have a sense of entitlement. A sense of entitlement is the ugliest thing in the world to a man. Accept that boys will be boys and cut them some slack. Some are clueless, but that doesn't always mean they are jerks or bad men.
Let's take Joan as an example. She is a beautiful woman with a daughter. She has patiently waited for her daughter to reach her mid-teen years before pursuing a love relationship for herself. For 10 years, Joan has been steadily working on herself to let go of old pain and release old behaviors that attracted more problem relationships. She has a great job and owns a home. She has been cleaning house emotionally, mentally, financially and spiritually.
Now she is saying, "Hey, what about me? Am I ever going to find love?" Sound familiar? The angels of Liberation want to guide you. "Are you feeling liberated? Or are you feeling trapped and seeking liberation? The angels of Liberation carry the qualities of devotion, humility and glory, all of which come with the experience of unconditional love. Love liberates you from limiting beliefs and hardness of heart, allowing your soul to stand triumphant and in glory. "Where do these angels guide you? Is it time in your life to dance in celebration of your freedom from a difficult situation or from an old behavior that no longer captures you? Then let the light pour in, radiating in every part of your soul.
There are thousands of stories from which a person found the love of their life in a grocery store, at the gas station and believe it or not, people have found love in jail. The point is to take advantage of every opportunity in life.By opportunity I mean take a chance to talk to someone who you don't know. I'm not saying that you're going to fall in love with a bum or someone on the bus, but just start striking up conversations with people. Share your personality and your intelligence with the people you meet.
You can find it again, trust me on that one. I know, it may not seem that way right now, but you will be able to find a woman to love again. What you first have to do is to get over the pain that you are feeling right now over the woman you have lost. You have to remind yourself that all it really means is that you are no longer with someone with whom you can't make a relationship work and if you learn the right attraction skills, you can replace her with someone who is better for you in the long run.
The same goes with negative questions. If you ask yourself questions like "Why can't I find love?" or "Why am I single?" your subconscious mind will again go and find the answers for you. These are not nice answers either! Things such as "You sabotage relationships.", "You're too fat!", "You can't commit." and so on... Your brain MUST come up with an answer for you.Not pleasant but that's how it works. You then keep going through the same patterns time after time, potential relationship after potential relationship.
Do you dismiss men easily or get offended by them at times? If so, maybe you are being to hard on them and have a sense of entitlement. A sense of entitlement is the ugliest thing in the world to a man. Accept that boys will be boys and cut them some slack. Some are clueless, but that doesn't always mean they are jerks or bad men.
Let's take Joan as an example. She is a beautiful woman with a daughter. She has patiently waited for her daughter to reach her mid-teen years before pursuing a love relationship for herself. For 10 years, Joan has been steadily working on herself to let go of old pain and release old behaviors that attracted more problem relationships. She has a great job and owns a home. She has been cleaning house emotionally, mentally, financially and spiritually.
Now she is saying, "Hey, what about me? Am I ever going to find love?" Sound familiar? The angels of Liberation want to guide you. "Are you feeling liberated? Or are you feeling trapped and seeking liberation? The angels of Liberation carry the qualities of devotion, humility and glory, all of which come with the experience of unconditional love. Love liberates you from limiting beliefs and hardness of heart, allowing your soul to stand triumphant and in glory. "Where do these angels guide you? Is it time in your life to dance in celebration of your freedom from a difficult situation or from an old behavior that no longer captures you? Then let the light pour in, radiating in every part of your soul.
There are thousands of stories from which a person found the love of their life in a grocery store, at the gas station and believe it or not, people have found love in jail. The point is to take advantage of every opportunity in life.By opportunity I mean take a chance to talk to someone who you don't know. I'm not saying that you're going to fall in love with a bum or someone on the bus, but just start striking up conversations with people. Share your personality and your intelligence with the people you meet.
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